Archive for August, 2010

Great Playground Games

Got a few extra minutes on your hands?  Try a few of these great games found at FamilyFun.com.

15 Seconds of Fame

  • Choose a seeker and have her stand in a central location. The other players all touch the seeker’s shoulder. When the seeker closes her eyes and begins to count down from 15, the other players have to run to find a hiding place.
  • When the seeker reaches zero, she turns in any direction and, with eyes still closed, takes three steps. She then opens her eyes and tries to spot the hidden players. All identified players must sit out the remaining rounds.
  • The game continues (with remaining players coming in to touch the seeker before heading out), but this time the seeker counts down from 14 before trying to spot hiding players. If players still remain hidden and unidentified, she counts down from 13, and so on.
  • If 15 seconds is not enough time for players to reach any hiding places, the seeker can start at 30 and count down in the same manner. The last player to be spotted wins and becomes the new seeker.

Hose Head

  • What You Need: Several pairs of old control-top hose or tights (sizes medium or small work best) and 1 sponge ball or rolled-up sock for each player
  • Setup: Create a hose hat for each player by cutting off the hose at the thigh and putting a ball or sock in the toe of each.
  • Players put on their hose hats, cuffing the hose as needed to make the fit secure. The ball should hang at least to the shoulders.
  • On the count of three, players try to grab the ball — and the hose along with it — off the heads of opposing players while keeping their own ball and hose in place. This leads to much wild swinging of heads (which is why a soft ball or sock works best) and much laughter. (No holding the hose on your head, as a strong tug from another player could be jarring.) The last player with a hose hat on his head wins.

Frisbee Golf

  • Before play begins, the group should plot out a course of six or eight holes by having players agree on a series of objects or sites on the playground at which the Frisbee disc will be aimed.
  • Once the course is decided, players take turns attempting to hit the targets with the Frisbee.
  • Players must keep track of how many throws they take to get the target; the player who completes the course in the fewest number of throws wins the day.
  • Tips: Having one Frisbee for each player helps (but is not necessary) to avoid quarrels over where the player’s last throw fell.

READ Tag (for older kids)

  • What you need: A paperback book for every player
  • Setup: Decide the boundaries of the playing field and the location of the “library.”
  • The player picked to be “It” chases the other players, who each carry a book. To save themselves from being tagged, players can stop running, open their book, and begin reading out loud. “It” can’t tag them as long as they are reading audibly and standing still.
  • Tagged players are sent to the library — a designated spot in the yard where they sit and read their books. To free them, other players have to run to the library and swap books with the tagged players. The last player to be tagged becomes the new It. The game ends when everyone is in the library — or when everyone decides they’d actually rather sit outside and read.

Developing a Family Plan for your child’s spiritual growth

Making a Family Plan

(From the book How to Raise a Modern-Day Joseph, page 59-63)

The school year is approaching, which makes right now a great time for  thinking about your family plan for the year.  Sound a little overwhelming?     Just take it one step at a time.  Think about what you want your kids to learn or experience by this time next year and start jotting down some ideas.   Having a plan keeps you from feeling to have to cram everything in your children’s little heads at once.

You can take it nice and slow and enjoy learning about God together.

Ready?

List your Spiritual Goals for the Year:

(Examples: Our child begins to pray regularly, he can tell the life story of 2 Bible characters, memorize 5 family verses, make a creation mural for the play room, etc)

  1. _______________________________________________________________________
  2. _______________________________________________________________________
  3. _______________________________________________________________________
  4. _______________________________________________________________________
  5. _______________________________________________________________________

Family verse: __________________________________

We will learn about the following people from the Bible:

  1. _______________________________________________________________________
  2. _______________________________________________________________________
  3. _______________________________________________________________________
  4. _______________________________________________________________________
  5. _______________________________________________________________________

As a field trip to learn more about God, we will go to: ____________________________________________

(Examples: planetarium, boat ride, mountain, field, etc)

Getting Started Right Now

Now, go to your calendar and write in WHEN you will work on these things.  For example, every two months, you’ll learn about a new Bible character.  Even if you don’t have next year’s calendar  yet, start writing your goals on this years and just fill in the rest in the New Year.

Want this in PDF form?  Click here for a Family Plan.

Other Modern Day Joseph Posts:

Book Review

Teach Your Preschooler to Respect God

Ideas for Helping Your Child Love and Respect God

Can You Teach a Baby about God?

Teaching Your Preschooler about God: Bible Stories and verses to consider

Preschooler Checklist for Spiritual Growth

What Should I Be Teaching My Preschooler about God?

Are you a checklist oriented person?

Want to make sure your “on the right track” with teaching your preschooler about God?

The following guide (starts on page 55 of Raising a Modern Day Joseph) will help you to evaluate your child’s growth and perhaps choose an area to focus on.

KNOWLEDGE: My child understands…

___ God created the earth

___ Dad and Mom also have to obey authority
___ God talks to us through the Bible

___ God knows everything and is everywhere

___ God is different than us

___ God is in charge
___ Dad and Mom also have to obey authority

___ God talks to us through the Bible
___ Sin is thinking, saying, or doing things that God doesn’t like
___ Jesus died for our sins and came back to life

LOVE: My child…

___ knows God loved us so much he sent Jesus to die for our sins
___ knows prayer is talking to God, and prays with the family
___ is thankful to God for things

___ enjoys attending church

___ wants to obey God out of love

___ memorizes simple verses

SERVICE: My child…

___ sings songs of praise to God

___ respects the possessions of others
___ makes pictures or cards for those who are sick

___ listens to parent reading the Bible
___ is learning to sit quietly in church

___ shows kindness to others
___ prays without prompting

___ thanks others without prompting

Lists aren’t for everyone, but if you like to check things off, this newsletter entry is for you! Just remember, spiritual development takes time. Each child progresses at their own pace. This is a guide, not a list of requirements. Use it as a tool, but don’t feel guilty if you don’t check everything off. You should be proud of what you’ve already accomplished!

Want this in a PDF version?  Click here for the Preschooler Checklist.

More Modern Day Joseph Posts:

Book Review

Teach Your Preschooler to Respect God

Ideas for Helping Your Child Love and Respect God

Can You Teach a Baby about God?

Key verses and stories for Preschoolers

Developing a Family Plan

Minute to Win It Office Edition

There were some great games in this episode of Minute to Win It.  In this office edition, office supplies are used in a whole new way to build some creative games, perfect for Children or Youth Ministry.  Be sure to check out some of these games which would be great for Minute to Win It style competition.

Office Maximus:

Contestant has to bounce a giant rubberband ball on the ground in order knock 3 reams of copy paper off a pedestal.  Great game!  Easy set up.  It might be a little tougher for younger kids to bounce the ball in order to knock over the paper, so you might want to create a variation for them (i.e. throw the rubber band ball straight at the paper).

Speed Eraser:

Contestant must bounce 7 pencils into glasses.  This seems tricky, but the guy on the show blasted through it like it was nothing.  Try it out yourself and see if it’s too hard for your kids.

Office Fling:

Player must fling a folded piece of paper using a rubber band strung on the legs of an upside down chair.  The paper must land on a desk 12 feet away.  This is a great one because it’s easily adaptable to different age ranges – just move the desk (or table) closer for younger kids.  Just beware.  I just see kids wanting to fling the paper at more than the desk!  :)

Office Tennis:

Using clipboards and a wad of paper, players must work as a team to hit the wad back and forth, moving down a line towards a trash can where they deposit the wad of paper.  This games gets kudos for super easy props.  You could use this game as a relay race for all your kids.  Based on the players performance, this game might be tougher than it sounds!

That’s it for now!

More Minute to Win It Posts:

More Minute to Win It for Church (part one) * Minute to Win It Summer EditionThe Do’s and Don’ts of Minute to Win it for ChurchesLast Beauty Standing * Double Trouble * Back to School Bash Videos * Coffee Break * Back to School Bash Game ListPerfect Strangers * Game Ideas for KidsNational Heroesand more!

Thanks for stopping by!

Looking for a good preteen curriculum

Got any Ideas?

Our preteen group just finished up a unit on Creation/Evolution and now we’re looking a new curriculum for both Wednesday nights and Sunday mornings for this group. We’re going to give The Lads Curriculum a try on Wednesdays, but are trying find something a bit more “lecture-style” for Sundays in order to get the kids used to the kids of sitting still in church.  Below are some other curriculum we are considering. (leave a comment and let me know if you have any experience or thoughts on them!) Let me know if you have a favorite preteen curriculum of your own!

Answers For Kids (Beginnings Curriculum) from Answers in Genesis

Next Level by Standard Publishing

How to Read the Bible from Today’s Children’s Ministry story (downloadable curriculum)

Jesus in Jeans by Creative for Kids

Superstart by Standard Publishing

Thanks, and I’m looking forward to hearing your thoughts!


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Three Things Churches Can Learn from the NFL Draft

I was reading this article about the NFL draft the other day. Now, my husband happens to love the draft. He will sit for hours listening to the incessant talking of reporters, coaches, players, and commentators. He will make predictions, applaud good choices, and watch the clock count down for the next draft pick. Why? Because he loves football. Perhaps a little too much.

Apparently, however, my husband is not the only one watching the draft (this is a shocking fact to me). What would make this seemingly mind-numbing event entertaining? Information. The person I heard talking about the NFL draft, who I will now refer to as “Draft Expert”,  explained there is a wealth of information given during the draft. When you watch the draft, there’s a countdown to the next pick, details about the team who’s picking, a scrolling marquee that gives real time updates including previous draft picks, details about the best available prospects, and snippet interviews about the eligible players. Occasionally, the draft will even dig into a players family or background.   According to the Draft Expert the draft dispenses so much information because:

Information breeds confidence.

And…

Confident people enjoy new experiences more.

I concur with Draft Expert.  Occasionally, I will watch the draft with my husband (for a limited amount of time, mind you).  And having all those flashes of information truly does empower me to feel like part of the NFL during that draft.  I scrutinize the eligible players, give my best assessment, and cheer when the team picks the same player as me.   Why? Because I feel confident enough to “participate” in the draft.  Information is powerful.   Which is why we should be using it to our advantage in church.

What we can learn from the NFL Draft

1. Give people plenty of information

When people walk inside our church for the first time, they are completely void of helpful information.  Don’t let them wander around lost and confused.  Lost and confused people don’t enjoy new experiences!  Confident people do. Confident people with information.  Make sure you’re giving people information about where to park, what doors to enter, where the sanctuary is, and where the bathrooms are.  If you notice a new family enter your church with kids or a baby, show them where the nursery is (that means actually WALKING them to the nursery).   Put clear signs up.  Have ushers and greeters available for questions.  And if someone looks lost, just ask if you can help.

2. Let people know what’s coming up

In the draft, there is a constant countdown, letting the audience know how long the current team has to pick a player.   If my husband can’t watch every second of the draft (rare), he will calculate when the Steelers will be on based on this magical timer.

In church, let people know when things are going to be happening, both short term and long term.   Recently, our church has started using a timer on the projector screen 5 minutes before the service starts.  This helps the worship team know when to start things and helps the congregation know when to settle down.

Long term, let guests know what’s coming up in church whether it’s a special service, a Bible study, or a new Sunday School class.  Help them to feel “in the loop” by keeping them up on all the church’s happenings.  A great way to do this is a Welcome packet which lists all the churches ministries.  When guests arrive early to church, they usually head straight for a seat and would probably love to have something informative to read while they wait to for the service to start!

3. Allow people to feel like part of the process

Part of the fun (did I just say that!) of watching the NFL draft is feeling like you’re actually part of the picking process. All that information must be going to your head and it feels like you could make a good draft pick if only given the chance!   Wouldn’t it be great if guests could feel the same way when visiting a church for the first time?  What if they could see what kind of ministries were available, some potential volunteer opportunities (complete with job descriptions), and they said to themselves, “Yeah, I could be part of that!”   What if they could walk out the doors after only one visit and actually feel connected and confident about the church?  Now that’s something that’s even more exciting than the NFL draft!  Information can do that.  Post it, print it, share it, explain it.  Whatever you need to do.  Help create confidence in your guests and then give God the glory when you see them back the next week!