Archive for 2010

Birthday Party for Jesus!

We just finished up our kids Christmas Play and are not starting our new curriculum till the New Year.  We don’t have services the 22nd or 29th because of the holidays, so we’ve got one lonely Wednesday to fill with fun.  What better activity than a party?  And what better party, than a party for Jesus!

The Plan

Fill the gym with some balloons, play some party games, and have the kids frost cupcakes and decorate them.  We’ll read the Christmas story out of Read and Share Bible and then perhaps have the kids give “gifts” to Christ. These can be a talent, a song, a Bible verse, a joke, a prayer, or something along those lines.

The Games

Minute to Win it Games are always a hit.  Check out the Back to School Bash post for a list of games or click through the other Minute to Win it posts for ideas.

We might also try a few of these classic games: Limbo, Musical Chairs, Hot Potato (or hot Christmas ornament).

Also, the kids love this crazy “find the straw” game, so we might play that with some candy canes.

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Instant Christmas Pageant Review

Pumpkin and Pajama Party

Pictures from the Party!

Merry Christmas!

Well, I finally finished our annual Christmas letter, bought some ink, and am ready to send out the Christmas cards.  I thought I’d share the letter with my readers as well to give you a glimpse into our year.   Let me know if you’d like a Christmas card!  :)

We hope that you are doing well and enjoying this Christmas season.  Like every year, it seemed to creep up fast, didn’t it?   We wanted to share a few things that have filled up our 2010 calendar and hope to hear from you as well!  Sometimes facebook status updates just don’t cut it. :)

For us, our year started with lots of joy as we welcomed Abigail into the family (and into the world!) on January 10th.  Praise God, everything went smoothly and what a blessing she has been to our lives!  We spent the next few quiet winter months getting acquainted.  She continues to surprise us everyday!

The lazy days of summer were consumed mostly by preparations for our church’s “Big Event” (Vacation Bible School) and a week at a Youth Group Adventure Camp (YAC).  We did manage to squeeze in a hot-dog eating contest (Mike’s brother took the trophy there), a pontoon ride on the lagoon, a fourth of July parade, and lots of grilling!

While at YAC, Mike served as cabin leader.  With Abigiail snugly slung in her Moby wrap, she and I were off to perform cabin checks, take pictures, and fill in where needed.  Though a bit unconventional, the week turned out to be just what we all needed: a bit relaxing and spiritually uplifting.

Upon our return from camp, the Whitney Home Day Care officially opened with a couple of game-loving, cooking-crazy boys as my first clients.  We had lots of fun in the sprinkler, taking trips to the park, and enjoying the weather.  On the weekends, the family snuck in a few trips to the zoo and of course, had our fill of graduation parties.

This Fall, Mike headed to Iroquois high school to continue coaching.  He had a good year, but “there’s  always room for improvement”, he says.  Abigail has a few new friends attending the day care, and we’ve fallen into a pretty good rhythm as a family.  Things continue to go well at the church, and we are looking forward to all the Lord has planned for us there.

Like everyone else, we never seem to have enough time to catch up with friends, let alone finish the laundry!  We’re thankful for all the Lord has brought our way this year and look forward to the upcoming year!   What about you?

Love,

Mike and Lindsey Whitney

On the bookshelf:

  • Mike – The Gift of Fear
  • Lindsey – Radical, Three Wishes, Pen on Fire, Esther (Bible study)

In the Game Cupboard: Settlers of Cataan

Build a Better Blog: Come up with 10 posts

This will be a fun task for those of you hands-on, visual types.   Start with your last five posts and then build on each of them for further post ideas.  You can do this either by expanding, taking a topic further, answering a reader question, exploring an opposite point of view, or something along those lines.  I’ve done this a few times, and even if you don’t end up using all the posts, it’s still kind of fun to generate new ideas.  Here’s what my mind map looked like:

For full details, check out Day 11 in the Build a Better Workbook.  Still need a workbook?  Click on the link in the sidebar to get yours!  Be sure to use the GKM code for 25% off.

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Today’s post is featured over at The Mommyhood Memos.  Be sure sure to check it out!

(The blogger task will be posted tomorrow, for those of you following the 31 Week Challenge)

Getting Started in Ministry: The Essential Reading List

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New to the ministry?  Looking for some fresh ideas?  Check out some of these titles:

Children’s Ministry That Works !: The Basics and Beyond

Children’s Ministry Volunteers That Stick

Making Your Children’s Ministry the Best Hour of Every Kid’s Week

The Fabulous Reinvention of Sunday School: Transformational Techniques for Reaching and Teaching Kids

Sunday School Attendance Boosters: 165 Fresh and New Ideas

The Humongous Book of Games for Children’s Ministry

Group’s Dinner and a Movie: G-Rated: Friendship, Faith, and Fun for All Ages

Think Orange: Imagine the Impact When Church and Family Collide…

Shift: What it Takes to Finally Reach Families Today

Collaborate: Family + Church

Children’s Ministry Leadership: The You-Can-Do-It Guide

Transforming Children Into Spiritual Champions: Why Children Should Be Your Church’s #1 Priority

The Kid’s Guide to Service Projects: Over 500 Service Ideas for Young People Who Want to Make a Difference

The Be-With Factor: Mentoring Students in Everyday Life

Raising Resilient Children : Fostering Strength, Hope, and Optimism in Your Child

Enjoy!

Creating a Vision

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One of the first things you need to do when creating or seriously revising a ministry is to create a vision. Proverbs tells us that without a vision, the people perish.  People need to feel purpose.  A vision gives the ministry a sense of direction. It allows you to filter through all the potentially good ideas to pick only the ones that are going to propel your ministry forward in the direction you feel God has called it to go. When you have limited recourses, the best way to get things accomplished is to Focus! Focus! Focus! A vision allows you to do this.

There are several books that helped us as we worked towards a vision (check the links below). With the help of the three current team members and a few others, we developed our first vision statement for our children’s ministry:

To provide the children in the Harborcreek, Lawrence Park, Wesleyville, and surrounding areas with a biblical, Christ-centered ministry which places high value on family involvement, experiential learning, friendship building, and fun. Our hope is to provide consistent outreach to our communities and to also provide discipleship to the children through small groups and mentoring.

A great start, but a little too long to remember.  Using the above statement as a framework, we focused the vision a bit more and came up with:

To ignite a desire for a genuine and passionate relationship with Christ and to equip the kids for the spiritual battle that they are in.

Okay, your turn.  Start by thinking about these questions.

What?

What is the problem I am trying to address with this ministry? Is there a lack of biblical teaching and knowledge? Is there a low attendance problem? What kind of challenges are you facing? For those of you participating in the Ministry Blogger Challenge, it’s much the same as developing your elevator pitch.

Who?

Decide who you are going to focus on reaching. Do you want to focus on the neighborhood directly around your church or organization? Do you want to focus on a specific age group? This should be included in the vision.

How?

How are you going to accomplish the vision? Is it through mentoring? Through small groups? Through consistent teachers? Think about this as you create your vision.  You don’t have to have everything spelled out, but start to become mindful of a definite plan of discipleship.

How Long?

A vision should be in use for at least five years or so. Don’t make your vision so short-sighted that you have to always be revising it. It should project an idea of success for the future. It should give everyone something to be working towards.

What was it again?

Make sure you vision is memorable. It will do no good to have a fantastic vision if no one in your ministry can remember it. (That’s why we had to change ours!) It is supposed to give your team members focus and direction. What good do directions do if you can’t remember them? In constructing your vision, feel free to elaborate  on all the little details, but when making your vision public, shorten it up in order to make it memorable.

Above all, make sure the vision statement is yours. If it does not stir your heart within you towards the ministry and the work of God, it’s not finished yet. Keep working and revising, you’ll get it!

Suggested Resources:

Making Vision Stick (Leadership Library)

Visioneering: God’s Blueprint for Developing and Maintaining Vision

Communicating for a Change: Seven Keys to Irresistible Communication

Seven Practices of Effective Ministry

Making Your Children’s Ministry the Best Hour of Every Kid’s Week